now, on a different topic. it's really really long so, yeah, it's okay if you are not interested. haha! i'm placing my 'reputation' at stake (not much of a 'reputation' anyway, but you should know what i mean)

This is to a friend i care for.
It is thoroughly worrying to see you in this shape. Just recently when i saw you, you left me speechless. Seriously, i have never seen someone lose SO MUCH weight before (eliminating those silly telly ads.).
yknow, in my opinion, losing weight is fine if you know your limits and stop after you have reached a reasonable target. i know it's prevalent everywhere, people taking diet pills, working out, eating less. (i am anti-dietpills, by the way). i understand that yes, losing weight does help you redeem some pride in yourself and level up your confidence. BUT, i am going to make it clear that you have taken a step way too far. You are so skinny now and when people say, 'Hey! you have lost so much weight!' you say 'Thank you.' Do you realise what kind of example you are setting here? my other friends actually said that they feel motivated to lose weight after seeing you.
It really stabs a knife into my heart whenever i see such a reaction because when people say that to me, i feel worried about myself. i never say thank you. you can go ahead and think i am some freak, but i still stand by that. perhaps, some might say i have no right to touch on such a sensitive issue because i, myself have shed some pounds too. BUT, i want to make things clear that i am eating properly, chocolates are still my good friends.
anyway, back to the subject. PLEASE stop drinking water for meals and salads for lunch. it's scary.. really. you can kill yourself if you continue skipping meals and stuffs. i don't know if you do that, i have no authority over what ever you do. but as a friend who adores you, i care for you so that is why i am blogging this out (i don't know and do not care how people will think of me after reading this, though) i will keep your identity a secret but i do hope you read this.
Beauty is on the inside. cliche, i know. but it holds the truth. think about it. seriously, you have to draw a line for everything. be strong and overcome it. i will always be there for you.

To a few other friends of mine who are suffering from unrequited love.
Unrequited love can possibly be deemed as one of the most deadly weapon to one's heart. i have been through that and i believe many others have.
it has occurred to me that many people are suffering in silence for the ones they love. many of my friends have been telling me how painful it is to wait for someone who sometimes does not even acknowledge their presence. but through it all, despite all the challenges, they persevere and hang on to this hope of being the other half of their dream. i respect them for that.
Waiting for that one person is indeed painful, especially if he or she is with someone else. But, isn't the best thing in life worth waiting for? I am not hinting on anything, though. dont get me wrong. The most important thing is to FOLLOW YOUR HEART. Please don't force yourself to give up when you know you can't. it's self-destructive. Neither do you brainwash yourself into thinking that your eyes are only for this person. If you are able to, expand your horizons, stretch the line of your boundary and who knows? someone more beautiful might walk into your life and this beauty will be everlasting.
However, it's too bad that we are still too young to know if anyone is The One. It takes years, it takes commitment, it takes a promise.
So, for those who are waiting for the special one, i have suggestion and it's up to you whether or not to agree with me. Tell him/her. Make your feelings known so you can stop this longing. Make it clear but not aggresive or forceful. Soft, sweet and short. The other person will definitely appreciate it. He or she will admire your strength and respect your courage.
I know the greatest fear of all is that if you do confess, it will be gg (good game) to your friendship -get ready to bid farewell. So here's the tricky part, you got judge the character of the other party and place trust on your judgement. if you know that the opposite sex is not going to talk to you after the sudden confession, my advice to you is 'DON'T'.
However, everything's worth taking a chance for. Who knows, you might misjudge the strength of the other person? trust in both yourself and the one you love. A reward for your hard work might just be a few sentences away(: